Brain Freezes, Braggarts and Civil Political Discussion: The Art of Manliness Podcast Take 3 If you’ve been reading my blog for a bit, you know I have the amazing opportunity of appearing on the Art of Manliness’ podcasts; this ongoing endeavor is called “Ask… Read More
50 Shades of “I’m Sorry”: a Breakdown of the Apology As those of you know who have been reading my blog for some time, I’m a fan of dissecting an apology. Over the last few years, I’ve looked at the … Read More
Big Benefits from Small Talk I was pleased to be asked to contribute to a terrific article in last week’s Wall Street Journal, The Benefits of a Little Small Talk. As the reporter, Jennifer Breheny… Read More
It’s Not Fair! What to Do When the Preposterous are Promoted Last week I received a letter asking for advice about how to rally a young and energetic staff who were pissed off that a deeply mediocre colleague had been promoted.… Read More
Help! I’ve Tripped Over My Words and I Can’t Get Up! While it would be nice to think we all move through the world with effective, thoughtful, meaningful language at our beck and call, it’s possible this isn’t always the case.… Read More
The Benefits of Post-Roast (Suitable for Vegans and Vegetarians, Too) I heard recently an interview between Fresh Air’s Terry Gross and Jeff Ross, “Roastmaster General” of Comedy Central. One of the questions Terry asked was, “Do people ever request a… Read More
“What I did on MY summer vacation.” AKA How to Handle a Braggart School, literally and figuratively, is back in session and it’s likely everyone is exchanging tall tales about their summer fun. While it’s possible you are having a marvelous time hearing… Read More
Abundance in One, Easy Step As summer draws to a close, many of us are feeling hot, tired and—frankly—grumpy. Our bathing suits are faded, our T-shirts are stained, and our flip-flops are broken. We are… Read More
“Weed, Whites and Wine….”?: An Easier Way to Get Others from “No” to “Willing” I’m hoping some of you read the headline and recognized the chorus of Little Feat’s “Willing” in which our lonesome truck driver, given the impetus of ‘weed, whites and wine’… Read More
Be a Trampoline, Not a Backboard: Strategies of an Effective Listener Every now and then an article comes across my desk that’s thought provoking enough that I want to share it with you. This is one of those weeks. This morning… Read More